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Improving your marriage and improving your sex life go hand in hand.
Sex Isn’t Always Easy

[vc_row row_type="row" use_row_as_full_screen_section="no" type="full_width" angled_section="no" text_align="left" background_image_as_pattern="without_pattern" css_animation=""][vc_column][vc_column_text]If sex was easy, everyone would be doing it. You might be thinking, “Wait a minute! I thought everyone was doing it!”[/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row row_type="row" use_row_as_full_screen_section="no" type="full_width" angled_section="no" text_align="left" background_image_as_pattern="without_pattern" css_animation=""][vc_column width="1/2"][vc_column_text]Actually, researchers believe that more than 20 million Americans have...

I Used to Struggle With Not Understanding My Wife

Sarah and I work together to not only appreciate our differences, but to actually like our differences. But, I used to resent Sarah's perspective. Her detailed analysis, her cautious approach to new ideas. She's a slow decision maker. And honestly, that frustrated me. I wished she'd...

The Best Way to Add Fun to Your Life

Typically, life is filled with work, work, and more work We have our jobs that often require more than 40 hours per week. Tasks like daily cooking, cleaning, laundry, and shopping can feel like chores. Those of us who are parents have work with our kids: helping with...

Lean Towards, Not Away

Here is basic but, oh, so important advice to help you and your spouse stay close and intimate with one another:  Always lean towards one another!   The slippery slope of a couple’s marriage breakdown often begins by the movement of leaning away from their spouse.  It...

A Classroom for Couples!

This past Sunday afternoon, Jim and I facilitated a “Preparation for Marriage” course.  The classroom students were 4 couples engaged to be married this summer. ...

Great Sex in 50 Years

I wonder what crazy sex moves we'll be into when we're 50? This was a question I asked my wildly hot wife, Sarah recently (we're 26 and 27 respectively). We're beginning to experience the fun, exciting edge of experimentation in the bedroom. I can't help but...

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Celebrate Love in Your Marriage!

Celebrate milestones with your children's birthdays, no cavities at their dental checkup, or learning to ride a bicycle and celebrate love in your marriage!...

The Power of Great Conversation

Last evening, Sarah and I spent some time with friends of ours. After a few drinks, and as the evening matured, our conversation turned to things that were deeper than your usual dinner party fare: we talked about sex, our marriages, and we took turns...

Who Needs Date Nights? Pt.2

Sadly, for many couples, bedtime is NOT a good example of spending quality time focussed on one another.   Perhaps the wife goes to bed a lot earlier and is already asleep before the husband comes to bed.   Maybe the bedroom television is turned on for...