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5 Ways to Escape a Slump

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Junk Food and Sex

[caption id="attachment_314" align="alignright" width="300" caption="Image: digitalart / FreeDigitalPhotos.net"][/caption] Junk Food is, well, …junk. When we could be dining on sumptuous, home cooked meals, many of us pick up and eat junk food on the way home, and then find we’ve lost our appetite for the real meal. This...

10 Things to Do Each Day … With My Spouse!

Putting items on a "Daily Checklist" helps remind me of the important things I want to do. (Eventually, I won't need the list to remind me because the "items" become habits that come naturally.) Read over this list and consider whether you are doing these important...

Don’t Go Underground

[caption id="attachment_304" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="Image: Peter Oresved / FreeDigitalPhotos.net"][/caption] We all have a tendency to go underground with our feelings, temptations, and emotions that trouble us. We hide them. We don’t want anyone to see them. Then like potent, virile weeds, the underground roots attached to...

Sexual Frustrations

Sexual frustrations can be harnessed. Honest! [caption id="attachment_301" align="alignright" width="199" caption="Image: graur razvan ionut / FreeDigitalPhotos.net"][/caption] We all secretly wish (speaking only for the guys, now) that sexual frustrations wouldn’t exist at all! Imagine if: your sexual desire would be switched on only with thoughts of your wife your marriage...

Sacrificial Love in the Bad Times

For many of us, the vows we spoke on our wedding day were sincere—although completely unproven. We declared our love for richer or poorer, and for better or for worse—never thinking we would get poorer or worse! Recently, a news post on CNN told the story...

The Pygmalion Effect: Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

This phenomenon was first cited by a psychologist named Rosenthal, who discovered a teacher’s expectations influenced student performance. This effect was named after the mythological character, Pygmalion, a sculptor who fashioned a beautiful statue of a woman out of ivory that was so realistic—he fell...

Be a Life-Long Student

My very first arithmetic lesson was   1 + 1 = 2.   From there I learned how to add larger single-digit numbers together.  I was so excited thinking I had mastered addition! How naïve! What about adding 2,3, and 4 digit numbers or working with...

Random Acts of Kindness… Towards Your Spouse!

• Serving me breakfast in bed • Opening the car door for me • Cleaning up the kitchen • Bringing me home flowers • Giving me a “thank you card” • Making me lunch • Pouring me a glass of cold water • Serving me dinner before the rest of the family These are...

Why The Husband Is The Most Important Person

As goes the husband, so goes the marriage. As goes the marriage, so goes the family. As goes the family - so goes life. Tough thoughts? Yeah, for me too. The concept flies right in the face of the stuff Society feeds us. See, men...