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Dream Marriage – Can I have one?

 Yes, and no.   Yes—If you know what genuine love is all about, you can have your dream marriage. No—If you are selfish and self-serving, there is no way in the world you will ever have the marriage you are dreaming of! Actually, the relationship you're longing for...

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Avoiding the Marital Cliff!

When husbands and wives are unwilling to admit they are wrong—there is a marital cliff awaiting their marriages that is avoidable by working together! ...

Use These Date Questions on Your Next Date!

Dates with your spouse should be times when the two of you are drawn closer together. Good date questions are a really useful tool to help you have meaningful conversation together. In fact, the 20 questions we've put together will be an encouragement in several...

Better Sleep … Better Sex!

Recently, we experienced an extremely difficult three-week period as a result of Carrie's acute insomnia. During this time, Carrie suffered from anxiety attacks, depression, negative thoughts, and feelings of hopelessness. It was terrible. Then, after a change in medication, sleep returned and, within a few days,...

It’s True, Quotes About Love DO Promote Romance!

Quotes about love used in a little note, or spoken at just the right time, are excellent tools in kindling a budding romance, or fueling the raging fire of passion! Our collection of quotes about love cover many genres, sources, and purposes. Where possible, we have...

The Couple that Plays Together Stays Together

“The couple that plays together stays together.” This proverb packs a lot of truth! Playing and having fun together helps keep the friendship bond strong between a husband and wife. Life requires a couple to take on plenty of responsibilities: careers, scheduling, parenting, housework, finances, and more....

52 Short Love Notes to Romance Your Wife With!

Are you looking for inspiration for writing short love notes? Are you looking for help expressing romance to your loved one? Take a moment to read this sample note. Dear Sarah, I’m so proud of us; our friendship, the kindness we share between us, and the small...

Settling for a “Good Enough” Marriage?

Jim Collins, in his classic business/leadership book Good to Great, discusses the powerful concept of Level 5 Leaders.  Level 5 Leaders lead their lives and their businesses to great success. Are you a Level 5 Leader in regards to your marriage?  That’s what it will take...

How Carrie & Jim Regained Sexual Intimacy After Her Aneurysm

Part 3 by Carrie Four and a half months ago, I underwent a 7-hour brain surgery to repair a brain aneurysm.  I am thankful to God for the many healthcare professionals whose expertise helped me through the surgery and recovery.  God continues to pour out His...

Two Important Keys to Marital Intimacy During Extended Illness!

Part 2 by Carrie How do a husband and wife keep their sexual relationship healthy during times of serious illness especially when the recovery takes time?  Here are two keys Jim and I have learned are very important! 1.  Regular Communication. Jim and I must be willing...