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Good Kissing Techniques (Kissing 101)

Good kissing techniques are fun to learn! And, between husband and wife, there is no wrong way to kiss. Everyone is different, and enjoys different things; what is important is that you and your partner are pleasing each other. Good kissing techniques involve using variation: begin...

Developing a Positive Attitude in Marriage

Developing a positive attitude creates a context within which amazing things can happen! And I am not simply talking about mind-over-matter; I am talking about gaining new insights resulting in a renewed, optimistic perspective. I have to make a clear distinction between the plethoras of self-help practitioners...

Low Expectations will Hinder Your Marriage

Having low expectations for marriage and sex can be debilitating to a successful relationship and keep you from experiencing your dream marriage! We have examined some of the fundamental ways that Christianity, in our common experience, has transmitted a negative or minimalistic view of sex. For...

Christian Bubble

The Christian bubble: part 3 in our series of articles about Christians and views of sex.  In previous articles: Dualism, and the Error in Pairs, we attempted to provide a brief explanation why the words Christian and Sex seem to be incongruous! Wrong thinking about what the Bible really says...

Christians and Sexuality

Coupled with the influence of dualism on Christians and sexuality is this concept I’ll call the “Error in Pairs”.  I think most of us will agree that society holds a corrupted view of sexuality. The Bible is very clear on the dangers of sexual immorality, both through teaching and...

Christians and Sex

A Mismatch or Designed by God? Unfortunately, Christians and sex are two words that are not usually thought of as being comfortable together! Wrong thinking about what the Bible really says concerning Christians and sex has totally misrepresented God’s intention and design! Remember, sex was God’s idea! Wrong Thinking...

Christian Views on Sex

Christian views on sex are varied and extreme! What we must be careful to discern, is the difference between what the Bible actually says about sex and sexuality, and what our particular background and upbringing may teach us. How Do We Know What's Okay?! “Wouldn't it be...

Christian Marriage Advice on Sex and Intimacy

The Bible provides Christian marriage advice on the sexual relationship that is timeless.  In fact, in the Bible we find instruction as well as real life experiences relating to sex and marriage, passion, lust, and intimacy.  This ancient Book is a “how to” manual about such current...

Cheating in Marriage

Is there anything more devastating than a spouse cheating in marriage, and breaking their marriage vows? There are few pains deeper than infidelity; unfortunately, it happens much too often! Nevertheless, God delights in taking broken relationships and mending them! In fact, one of the most powerful stories...

Characteristics of Healthy Relationships

Characteristics of healthy relationships, literally, come in all shapes and sizes! We would be hard-pressed to catalogue all of the traits of a healthy relationship because of the huge variations among people. Maturity, personality, education, ethnicity, gender, and socio-economic background impact the subtle – and...